tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-214088412024-03-07T02:04:32.469-06:00Roses are Red, Violets are VioletRoses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.comBlogger891125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-24329856699408343332023-05-14T10:17:00.004-05:002023-05-14T10:24:14.491-05:00Mother's Day Reflections - May 2023<p>Judging from the number of cellophane-clad floral bouquets being toted out of the grocery store, there's no doubt Mother's Day is upon us. My own journey to motherhood was a bumpy road to say the least. After years of trying - eight to be exact - I made a decision at my Mom's funeral that I would not spend another dime on procedures or medication when there were children all over the world without mothers. Eight months later, I cradled a 27-month old little boy from a Russian orphanage in my arms on my first Mother's Day without my Mom. </p><p>A few years later, the simultaneous joy and pain of motherhood intersected as a 19-year old mother transferred her hopes and dreams for a child into my anxious arms. Domestic adoption was a new path not without its own set of hurdles and moments of quiet desperation. Will she change her mind? Will the doorbell ring causing my heart to literally break in two? Fortunately it didn't and our family was complete.</p><p>Or so I thought. </p><p>The concept of motherhood is a complicated one. The term mothering is one of nurture, guidance, and protection. It can extend to friends and even strangers at times. You can be a "team mom" or an "office mom." Or, in my case, a 19-year old girl from Russia can steal your son's heart before weaving her way into the heart of your entire family. What began as a cordial relationship between a girl and the mother of her boyfriend evolved into one of confiding, nurturing and eventually a maternal-type love. </p><p>When I lost my Mom to cancer 20 years ago, I lost that mother-daughter bond on which I had come to depend. Watching my friends with their daughters and especially my sister and niece's relationship, I was envious of the female connection that existed. There has never been a doubt that I was meant to be the mother of boys. But I craved that maternal stronghold I hadn't experienced since my Mom passed away.</p><p>As my relationship with Dasha grew, I realized that my heart was expanding to love another child as my own. I helped with essays, cut her hair, taught her new foods to cook, held her as she cried from being homesick and took care of her when she was sick. We would play-fight when being competitive during card games or "punch-bug" challenges on road trips. She has a fiercely independent nature but yet the tender, loving side opened its heart to me as well.</p><p>Two days ago, I stood in an airport and said goodbye to our girl. The end of her exchange program had arrived and she had to return home to Siberia in eastern Russia. Tears flowed freely from all members of our family and I thought my heart would break into pieces as I watched her walk through security and out of our daily lives for now. With future plans being uncertain, it felt as though a gaping hole had opened up for all of us. </p><p>But the beauty of motherhood makes you susceptible to the stinging pain of goodbyes. In order to miss someone so much it's hard to breathe, you must first love them. So with that in mind, I'm celebrating the pain of my third child leaving by acknowledging the amount of love that grew in the seemingly short 9 months we had her with us.</p><p>My journey to motherhood may have seemed like it was one pothole after another. But the sites along the way have made every bump in the road worthwhile. I am the mother to two boys that may have been born to someone else, but I have had the blessing of raising. And as they tearfully clutched each other tight in the backseat leaving the airport after our goodbye to Dasha on Friday, I realized that they too are experiencing the agony of loving someone. It means their hearts expanded as well and it made my Mama heart proud. </p><p>So today I am grateful for the gift of motherhood in all its twisted forms. The wanting to be, the becoming, the loving and losing and the joy in knowing that our hearts are always capable to expanding to love beyond what we imagined. I miss my Mom, I miss my new daughter but I am going to soak in my boys and the knowledge that the journey and all its twists and turns has brought me to where I am today. </p><p>It was worth every mile.</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-17592018461538839832023-03-13T08:26:00.005-05:002023-03-13T08:31:56.545-05:00Twenty YearsShe always wanted me to be a coffee drinker. "So we can sit and chat and have a cup together," she would say. I thought about that this weekend as I sat out on the dock watching the birds preening and swirling around as I sipped on a warm cup of coffee. <br /><br />Today is not unlike any other day without my Mom but it does feel like a significant milestone... twenty years. Twenty years since I said goodbye to her. As I sat out on the dock Sunday morning, a wave of sadness came over me. I realized she will never get to see the fruits of our labor with this house or the young men that would have called her Grammy. And boy were they were here in full force this weekend. Playing football, fishing, wrestling with each other and posturing in front of their girlfriends at the dinner table. Mom would have loved it. She would have matched Daniel wit for wit and would have soaked in the sweet, sensitive nature of Jacob. I often tell them stories about her but, just like pictures of the Grand Canyon can never convey the magnificence of seeing it in person, my stories always seem to fall short of relaying all the wonderful parts of who she actually was.<div><br /></div><div>It's funny to think about the memories of her that float to the surface. Having a baking sheet piled with cheesy nachos for me and my friends when we got home from school. The brightly-patterned animals with their little embroidered eyes and nose that she sewed for all of my adult friends that had babies. The meticulous way she would arrange my fast food for me if we were on a road trip and I was driving. How she would cock her head sideways in the mirror if she liked the way something looked as we were trying on clothes. And the way we would speak in movie lines and song lyrics in place of regular conversation. All of the seemingly random memories of my Mom that pop into my head often make me wonder what my own children will remember about me. I can only hope to have left a legacy for them that is half as quirky and wonderful and loving as the one she left behind.</div><div><br /></div><div>It's hard to fathom all that has happened in my life over the past two decades and that she has missed out on it all. My convoluted journey into motherhood without my own Mom to guide me was not for the faint of heart but left me with an appreciation of the sacrifices she made on our behalf. The number of different houses I've lived in through the years and all the decorating she would have helped me do. I think maybe that's what I love most about the house I'm in now-- how much of her I see throughout. I catch myself thinking about her as I spot a ray of sunlight landing on the armchair in my bedroom. It's those little things that somehow make me feel like she's there.</div><div><br /></div><div>More than anything, though, I know she would love getting up, grabbing a warm cup of coffee and sitting on the dock watching the geese and the pelicans dance on the water. I think I'll pour my own cup of coffee and go out there and join her. 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The Grand Hotel was once a civil war hospital and sits perched on the shores of Mobile Bay like a grand dame -- with twisted, moss-covered live oaks adorning her like strands of beautiful necklaces.<br><br>A favorite spot, especially for my mother, was the main lobby with its unique wagonwheel-shaped ceiling and stacked-stone fireplace. Here, my Mom would claim a big comfy chair and settle in with a good book and a bag of Skittles. This was a common thread among the many trips and has become my most vivid memory of this property.<br><br>In 2003, my Mom passed away from an 8-month battle with cancer. Naturally, it was pretty tough for me to visit the hotel 6 months after her passing since every nook and cranny seemed to whisper my mother's name. As I checked into my room, I couldn't help but notice a huge package on the bed wrapped in brown craft paper. I opened the card and this is what it said, "We know how much the Grand meant to you and especially your Mom. We're so sorry for your loss. We recently renovated the main building and researched the last room your mother stayed in. This painting (a watercolor of Julep Point-- a noteable spot on the property) hung above the bed in the last room your mother stayed in. We'd like for you to have it." Tears filled my eyes and I was overwhelmed with gratitude at the thoughtfulness of the gift. It truly was a priceless piece of art.<br><br>
Well, it's been 19 years since my Mom died and I hosted my first event since that day just last week. I had shared the touching story with current sales manager and she, too, was blown away. But, of course, she had her own way of honoring those memories. At our pre-conference meeting, she presented me with a coffee table book about the Grand. It was wrapped in a ribbon and, you guessed it, a bag of Skittles. Once again, tears filled my eyes at the sheer thoughtfulness of the gesture.<br><br>
You see I am a customer service fanatic. I teach classes on the subject. But the way that the team at the Grand Hotel worked to personalize my experience while honoring my Mom was so much more than good customer service. It's an example of the lost art of being human. Of seeing me as more than just a client but a person that was able to take a much-needed trip down memory lane instead of just hosting a business meeting. And that is what makes them a very Grand Hotel indeed. <br><br>
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Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-27976751141134347792020-10-29T05:48:00.004-05:002020-10-29T06:15:26.097-05:00Precious and Few...<p>We stood in the dark at the end of the driveway in our bare feet. In that sliver of light where the street lamp cuts through the trees, arms stretched wide, we let the gusts of wind bathe us as we watched the rain-soaked leaves dance in the air.</p><p>You’re an adult now. Between school and work and a girlfriend that now occupies your attention full time, there’s not much room left for a moment like this. Yet here we are, 5 in the morning, sharing the rush of remnant tropical storm winds together. </p><p>Although neither would like to admit it, we’re similar creatures you and I. Rather than be tucked inside where there is no sign of storm, we crave the rush of the wind blowing through our hair and the sounds of the trees swirling all around us. It’s the thrill, the excitement of the unknown, if only for a few moments. We laugh, make a few comments like “oh that was a good one..” or “that was the best one yet” before scampering back inside to warmth and safety and the comfortable security that the walls of a home provide.</p><p>But I’ll cherish those few precious moments in the dark. The ones where we were unencumbered by expectations, by the tension that exists between a parent and a child soldiering toward independence and continuously pushing the boundaries to get there. In those sacred moments at the end of the driveway, it was just me and my kid delighting in the rush of the wind in our hair. </p><p>Although he doesn’t know it, he gave me a gift. The gift of just being a mom with her son, arms wide open, scanning the trees around us for any sign of an impending gust. Those moments, like the wind gusts we worked so hard to capture, are gone as soon as they come. But I’m sure glad I was there, bare feet resting on a bed of soggy leaves and pine needles, to soak it all in. </p><p><br /></p>Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-73276458731937015532019-08-30T23:21:00.001-05:002019-08-30T23:30:33.903-05:00Slivers of SunshineIt's been a while since something in my life prompted me to write. And suddenly "prompted" doesn't even seem like the right word. "Drove me to my keyboard" may be a more fitting description. Regardless, it was one of those little nuggets in time that you wish would freeze and suspend mid-air because it was just so utterly perfect.<br />
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As an upbeat song came on the radio, I couldn't help but move my shoulders up and down and semi-dance as I drove. I then noticed he was watching intently, mimicking each move that I made. With an ear-to-ear grin on his face, he giggled as I taught him the "crank the lawnmower" and the "shop for groceries" dance moves and he even made up some pretty impressive ones of his own. Each time we'd pull up to a light, I would call out moves and he would break out into dance while belly-laughing at his newfound confidence.</div>
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If age has seasoned me at all, it has taught me that there will be a lot of not-so-happy hurdles to leap virtually every day. Whether it's non-stop negativity pouring forth on the news, the fragile health of a friend or family member or just the stressors of "adulting," looking for the little rays of sunshine creeping in can salvage even the most disheartening of days. And glancing over at my shotgun rider this evening, I saw just that. Sunshine. And joy. All on the face of a pre-teen that is, at times, too cool to let me be momma while simultaneously clinging to me with every last string of little boy left in him.</div>
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I have no doubt Jacob won't remember anything significant from our ride home tonight. But, for me, it was much more. Those precious 25 minutes were a lifesaver for me. The smile on his face, the laughter, but most of all, the dropping of the "I'm too cool to dance with my Mom" facade was just what I needed to get through another crazy week ahead.</div>
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You never know when those slivers of sunshine are gonna peek through the wall. But, when they do, you better bet I'm gonna write about them. That's the only way I can figure out how to make time stand still. And, for me, that is priceless.</div>
Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-1736382123203475262019-03-30T16:47:00.000-05:002019-03-30T17:03:40.314-05:00An Unexpected BlessingI knew the moment I spotted them, we were destined to meet. He was clad in a faded plaid shirt, blue jeans, and black suspenders that matched his well-worn black dress shoes. His gray hair wasn't much more than a suggestion atop his head and his glasses were thick as a soda bottle. He ambled along pushing her wheelchair-- not out of obligation -- but in a nurturing, almost-protective manner. I overheard her ask him if they had made it to the ladies department yet which tipped me off that she was without sight. He leaned down, spoke loudly in her "good ear" and said "yes! but I don't see any dresses or pants for that matter."<br />
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I've always been drawn to the elderly. As a young girl, I volunteered in nursing homes; but, instead of handing out magazines or adjusting pillows, I emptied bed pans, fed the residents and rubbed lotion on weathered skin. There is a certain entitlement to dignity that comes with living to a ripe old age and as I watched this man navigating his beloved through the maze of overstuffed clothing racks, I felt compelled to assist.<br />
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"Sir, can I help you find something?," I asked.<br />
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"Well, I wanted to buy my wife a dress and I'm not really sure where to look."<br />
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I asked her size and told him he could follow me as I led him to the right section. As we walked, I asked him how long they'd been married and, with a gleam of pride he responded "well, we're goin' on 63 years now. She went blind four years ago and I've been getting her ready ever since."<br />
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As I surveyed her outfit, my heart smiled. Her hair was neatly coiffed and she was wearing a nice black and white blouse, pressed black slacks and simple black flats. What I found so sweet was her jewelry. Her earrings were long, dangly and sparkly matching her equally fancy necklace. I told him she looked like a million dollars and a smile stretched clear across his face.<br />
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As we approached the rack of dresses, I selected a navy one with little yellow flowers and a short-sleeved yellow sweater. He placed it in her lap and let her feel it with her hands. She ran her delicate fingers over the fabric and smiled exclaiming, "ooooh, this is niceeeee!" I told her she would look so pretty in it that he might get a little flirty with her. She giggled and smacked my hand in mock embarrassment.<br />
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Meeting William and Susan this afternoon changed me. I had spent the better part of my day in dressing rooms trying on bathing suits and feeling anything but beautiful. After cataloging all my flaws in the mirror, I stepped out, saw those two and realized that beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. He looked at her with such adoration that I couldn't help but fall in love with them myself.<br />
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We stood and chatted a while as they shared about their 60-yar old son battling cancer, their friend at church that is deaf but can quote the whole sermon just by lip reading and the fact that she had worked at that very department store 40 years prior. They were simply delightful and I am a much better person for having crossed their path.<br />
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I witnessed pure, unselfish love today. A man pushing a wheelchair to help his blind wife of 63 years find a new dress to make her feel pretty. As I hugged them goodbye, she said "God bless you for helping us." <br />
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<br />Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-48079661341533386312016-05-07T23:01:00.001-05:002016-05-07T23:14:18.029-05:00Mother's Day 2016As I leaned down to kiss my sleeping child on his forehead tonight, a tear fell as a flood of emotions welled up inside. Over the past few weeks, I have struggled to stay composed when the longing for my own mother hits. I lost her 13 years ago to cancer and the missing had gradually gotten a little easier until recently.<br />
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As a Mom, I often fall prey to the realization that, contrary to my belief as a coming-of-age young woman, my mother actually DID know what she was talking about. Whether the topic in question involved boys, clothes, sibling spats... she really did have my best interest at heart when dispensing sage tidbits of advice. But back then, I would have just as soon changed my name and moved to Mars than to admit that she was right. <br />
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Now, my daily encounter with a 14-year old son that thinks I am the possibly the UNcoolest person he knows makes me want to shake my teenage self and scream "LISTEN TO HER. She's NOT ancient and out-of-the-loop. She sees the bigger picture a lot clearer than you do!" If only I could.<br />
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Perhaps the biggest part of the struggle is wanting to share Mom-stuff with her or ask for advice when the boys are fighting or I feel like a failure trying to find balance each day. But she's not a phone call away. I long to commiserate on the challenges of parenthood as much as I would give anything to see her at my son's field day in her big floppy hat and sandals. I want to post a current picture of my Mom and me on my Facebook profile instead of a grainy image from over a decade ago. I want to give her yellow roses and share recipes and go to Mom & Daughter functions at church and all the perks of having an adult relationship with the woman that raised you.<br />
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I'm pretty sure the recent struggle goes deeper than the melancholy of a Mom-less Mother's Day. It is a soul-gripping ache for her to know my children and know me as a Mom. She would devour my oldest child's sarcasm and quick wit as much as she would cherish my youngest son's sweet hugs and tender heart. And they would love their Grammy, too. Her creativity and the cackle of her laughter would draw them in as much as her warmth of her hugs. I want them to know what an amazing woman their Grammy was.<br />
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So as the onslaught of this holiday rolls around in a matter of hours, I pause to reflect on the blessing of not only being a Mom but having so many fond memories of my own mother. I miss that selfless, artsy-fartsy, giving, funny, piano-playing, Skittle-and-sunset-loving woman. I was blessed to have her for 31 years and, for that, I celebrate this Mother's Day.<br />
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Happy Mother's Day, Mom. I may not have realized it at 14, but this 44-year old woman knows all the sacrifices you made for me. I realize that you knew so much more than I ever gave you credit for. He wasn't right for me. That skirt was too short. I really can do anything I set my mind to. And, yes, being a Mom is the hardest--yet most rewarding-- thing I'll ever do.<br />
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Get ready for this Mom.....<br />
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Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-87473919368429997522015-10-07T10:58:00.000-05:002015-10-07T10:59:23.126-05:00Cowboy CutieDid a Western-themed Spirit Night at Texas Roadhouse last night for Jacob's school and this was my date for the evening. I must say he looks mighty cute as a cowboy!<br />
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<br />Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-21767579846305779432015-10-06T12:22:00.001-05:002015-10-06T12:24:45.828-05:00One Foot In Front of the Other<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Life change is hard. Period.<br />
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That fact was making its presence known at 5:45 this morning as I struggled to get out of bed to do my morning walk. As I lay there compiling all the reasons I did not need to go, my phone buzzed and my accountability partner in Nashville had issued a FitBit challenge for the day.<br />
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Crap.<br />
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So, I toss the excuses to the side and peel myself off the mattress and walk, ever so begrudgingly, to the closet to change. With shoes laced up and earbuds in, I took my first steps down the driveway into the darkness. The air felt like October should-- crisp and clean and inviting-- and the sky was a palette of deep blue with a smattering of stars waiting to greet me. I knew this was a good decision.<br />
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Often when my mind is amuck (which is all of the time of late) losing myself in music is a welcome distraction. This also proves to be a helpful remedy when I'd rather be snug under the covers (one foot out for good measure, of course) than pounding the pavement in the name of health.<br />
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As I made the final stretch back to the house I glanced at my FitBit and it read 3,175 steps rather than the 40 or so with which I started. I gave myself a mental pat on the back and decided that starting off my day with a sky full of stars and my favorite songs isn't so terrible after all. All it took was a little willpower and putting one foot in front of the other.<br />
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We'll see if I am this motivated when that alarm sounds tomorrow morning.... :)<br />
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<br />Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-70837878684565112942015-10-05T13:42:00.003-05:002015-10-05T13:42:30.722-05:00One more for today...I love the harmony of their voices.... a great mash-up of some of my favorites.<br />
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<br />Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-53752161964303576542015-10-05T11:52:00.001-05:002015-10-05T11:53:37.268-05:00Lay Me DownI'm in a music mood. This song soothes me with its raw emotion.<br />
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Also, how the orchestra is situated and the way the graphics billow up behind him... this video is close to perfection. As is the song.Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-90111088497206641272015-09-24T21:13:00.002-05:002015-09-25T11:55:06.301-05:00I Won't Let Go<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-5035713932443590792015-08-04T09:47:00.001-05:002015-08-04T09:47:15.055-05:00My Sweet GirlTaking my Cassie girl to the animal hospital. She's been sick for a couple days and I'm pretty worried about her. As much as my heart is breaking with worry, my son Jacob is sick with concern. Cassie is lethargic with no appetite so she's definitely not herself.<br />
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Praying she'll be ok...<br />
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Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-17570431886622510652015-08-03T15:05:00.001-05:002015-08-03T18:32:14.246-05:00Pardon Me? I Don't Speak Idiot.In the interest of full disclosure, there are some, well, physiological reasons that I might be a little on EDGE today. But, even if I am not in the perkiest state of mind, I should be able to expect even the most basic form of COMMON SENSE when dealing with others.<br />
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I took the boys to lunch today at a local deli. Their soup of the day was potato which is Daniel's favorite. And there, atop the cash register, sat two sizes: Regular and Large (two cups of slighty differing capacities.) <br />
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So I ordered: "I'd like a regular potato soup, an order of nachos, and a large drink. Thanks."<br />
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"We're out of the regular soup," the rocket scientist behind the register informed me.<br />
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"So, do you have any other soups?" I inquire.<br />
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"Oh,we have the potato soup. We just don't have it in regular."<br />
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<i>What about unleaded? I'm so confused. The room is starting to spin a little.</i><br />
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I take it a little further. "So, you have the potato soup but I can only buy a large portion?"<br />
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"Yes," she replied.<br />
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"Is that because you ran out of regular-sized cups?" <i>This is beginning to entertain me.</i><br />
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"Yes."<br />
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<i>My left eye is now twitching.</i><br />
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"Well, do you THINK that we might be able to buy a regular-sized amount of soup but you just use the larger container so that I won't have to buy $5.50 worth of soup that he won't finish?"<br />
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"Fine." SHE is now annoyed with ME.<br />
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<i>But it gets better.</i><br />
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She rings up my order and, as she is scanning my credit card, there is a coupon for today's special laying at the counter. FREE NACHOS with purchase of a large drink. (A $3.00 savings).<br />
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"Ma'am. Um, if today's special is a free nacho with a large drink and I just bought an order of nachos and large drink, wouldn't my nachos be free?"<br />
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<i>She looks at me as if I just landed on the counter in a spaceship. </i><br />
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"Well, it would but I just charged your card."<br />
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"Yes, I SEE that but could you not undo that considering I bought those two things and it's today's special and the nachos should be free?"<br />
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"My manager is not here."<br />
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At that point, I seriously looked around for a camera crew thinking I was on an episode of Punkd or What Would You Do?<br />
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You know, there are times in life when it's just not worth the fight. When the difference between fighting for what is right and curling up in the fetal position underneath the first booth on the left is nothing but a fine little line. There are times when stupid is simply stupid (Yes, Jacob I said the S-word) and you just decide to go on with life.<br />
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I'll just consider that $3.00 a small price to pay for a ringside seat at Are You Smarter than a Gnat?<br />
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Sigh. Pass the Midol, please.<br />
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<br />Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-43732429747184278252015-08-02T21:06:00.000-05:002015-08-02T21:20:11.217-05:00Building More Than Pirate ShipsI had found my solution to the doldrums--curling up on my bed on a Sunday afternoon and losing myself in my favorite Netflix show. The boys were content watching TV (so I thought) and, as my I slowly drifted off into my own little world, my door opened and there stood my wide-eyed seven-year old child.<br />
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"Will you play Legos with me, Mama?"<br />
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<i>Nooooooooooo my inside self screamed from a deep, selfish place.</i><br />
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"Um, do you mind if Mama finishes her show and then we'll play?"<br />
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"OK, Mommy."<br />
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<i>Guilt. That sweet little voice. They're only young once. Trace Adkin's voice blaring from the radio in my head, "You're gonna miss this....you're gonna want this back..."</i><br />
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Oh for Pete's sake </i>I think to myself as I begrudgingly peel myself off the bed and walk upstairs. The show can always wait, I guess.<br />
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"Lego time!," I announce in my best faux-enthusiastic voice as I reached the entrance to his bedroom.<br />
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Just the look of excitement on his face was enough to make me want to crawl under a rock for being so self-absorbed just a few minutes before.<br />
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"Yay! OK, here is the plane I've been working on and I really need some help making it look nice. OK, Mommy? OK?"<br />
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<i>That sweet little voice.</i><br />
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I stretched out on my tummy as he poured the box of Legos out in front of me--a cascade of colorful squares, Lego-man body parts and the occasional miniature Lego weapon.<br />
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That's when it began. All of the thoughts of what I was "missing out" on by giving up my "me" time dissipated as I carefully constructed gun turrets, outfitted my pilot with the latest in Lego head gear and debated whether or not the sides of my plane were even. I was having a ball.<br />
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Pretty soon, my thirteen-year old came in, plopped down and said "You can go if you want to. I'll help him. I'm sure you're not having that much fun." With a sly smile I replied, "There's no place I'd rather be." And that statement couldn't have been truer.<br />
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I mean, I'm sure the lead characters of my Netflix drama are somewhere tapping their foot waiting on me to return. But they can wait. Because this afternoon the "me" time I thought I so desperately needed was actually me, my boys and a mixed-up, scattered pile of little colorful pieces of plastic.<br />
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And you know what? I couldn't have been happier.<br />
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And, perhaps my favorite pic of all... two brothers playing quietly in the soft sunlight of a Sunday afternoon. Pretty soon, the six years age difference between them will be a chasm. But, for now, Legos unite them and it's a sweet memory indeed.<br />
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Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-86315934162414476162015-08-01T22:35:00.000-05:002015-08-02T13:38:50.242-05:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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At what point will this dork learn to slather on the sunscreen?! Lobster city.Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21408841.post-20708625097825077812015-08-01T19:20:00.002-05:002015-08-01T19:20:52.155-05:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As we strolled through the Halloween carnival last October, my animal-loving 6-year old spotted the neatly-lined rows of fishbowls containing goldfish and he lost his heart forever. He paid the man at the booth a crisp one dollar bill and proceeded to chunk ping pong balls at the orchard of shiny bowls only to come up empty handed with each toss. So, being the oh-so-gullable Mom that I am, I found myself perusing the aisles of PetsMart the next day helping Jacob find the perfect aquatic pet.</div>
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Having selected the red and blue betta fish and a tank where we could keep them separated and unable to eat each other (huh?!), we headed home with the new additions to our family-- Spike and Henry. Spike lived up to his name with his feisty swim patterns and bold electric blue color. Henry, on the other hand, was a much more docile fish with a deep red color and a reserved demeanor. Jacob instantly fell in love with his new "fishies" and, surprisingly, kept up with his every other day feeling schedule and took great delight in his new responsibility.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Take me back to where we started,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Take me back to where we end;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I was alone and empty hearted,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">All I needed was a friend.<br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">There was you.... there was always you,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To guide me through my darkest day;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Such a fool.... I was such a fool,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To watch you walk away.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">With words left unspoken,</span><span style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Promises broken;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Where would we be today,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">If our hearts weren't torn asunder,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">If we hadn't gone our separate ways.<br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">All this time.... all this precious time,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Moments sinking in the sand;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I was blind.... why was I so blind,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To let love slip right through my hands?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">And I would let fall those paper walls around us,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">And we would never be apart.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">But there ain't no bars around my cage;</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Though our story may be written,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">In this heart.... in this foolish heart,</span></div>
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Above my cracked windshield<br />
Each one of its burnt umber leaves<br />
Dangling as they danced in the breeze<br />
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This spot suited my need for nature<br />
Ironic as the cars and buses on the highway<br />
Buzzed by just feet from the nose of my car<br />
The perfect place for my hurried fiesta<br />
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Crunchy taco in hand, I delighted in this little haven<br />
A solitary spot in an otherwise urban landscape<br />
A lone tree in an empty parking lot<br />
Providing a pastoral backdrop to my lunch on the go<br />
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The dark clouds on the horizon brought with them<br />
A strong breeze and, dare I say, a nip in the air<br />
A far cry from an unseasonably warm yesterday<br />
A signal that my autumn had finally come?<br />
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Windows rolled down, I follow a leaf now detached<br />
As it swirls in the air, finding its resting place<br />
Atop a slightly ajar manhole cover nearby<br />
Others dangling above watching, anticipating their fate<br />
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Crunch, crunch goes the salty taco shell<br />
The breeze whips through my hair, I exhale<br />
An unexpected respite in an overly scheduled day<br />
A caravan of school buses hustle by<br />
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All too soon my time here is finished<br />
The car rider line beckons, I am soon on my way<br />
I will recall with fondness my time here<br />
A cool autumn breeze, the dance of brown leaves<br />
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With just a dab of sour cream<br />
Licking the salt from my lips<br />
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--kt 10/29/14Roses Are Red, Violets are Violethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12414962520668761502noreply@blogger.com0